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For our chapter, getting on Panhellenic really helped.

Also, you just need to do your thing. Part of the problem is that you are a new chapter and part of it is you are a non-NPC sorority.

You really need to get your chapter involved with things seen as "traditional greek activities": fraternity mixers, philanthropies, etc.

If people see you all and your letters more often, it well help "legitimize" you.