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Alright, so based on what you posted, it seems like you aren't satisfied with the dynamics of your chapter, but you haven't said anything about the larger picture, such as other chapters and alumni.
Main thing I want to ask is: does your ritual mean anything to you? If so, do your brothers live up to the ritual? If not, do you think you can possibly get them to live up to it?
I personally think it's the bigger picture that's at stake here: if simply not feeling it in the chapter but everyone still has some (very) remote ties that you share, you can probably do something to fix up the bonds. Maybe you guys just aren't doing philanthropy events or brotherhood bonding events because nobody did them, even though all of your brothers would have liked them.
Until you've talked to all of your brothers about this and still feel that the problems are just beyond all hopes of repair, sit on it and see what you can do to make your chapter a better fit for you. After all, why did they bid and initiate you in the first place?
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