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We ONLY did candle passes for engagement. Laveliering/pinning/dropping was unheard of on my campus. We had the same candle for all passes, and whoever it was told the president. When the chapter got to the chapter room, we were told to stand in a circle, which is how we would know it was a candle pass. The ring would be on the candle and it would go around once so everyone could look at the ring, and then on the second time whoever it was would blow it out.
My favorite candle pass story actually happened before I was active. Apparently the candle went around the second time, and the girls two best friends' we on either side of her and blew it out for her... and then her boyfriend jumped out of the closet and proposed. Cute.
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