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When I first (re)read this thread late last night I had the same reaction as Aztheta: What did you say that was disparaging/wrong/un pc about your sorority chapter? The worst thing you said, I believe, is that you couldn't see yourself as a member. So what? I believe that there are many of us here who felt (and expressed) those feelings about a chapter that we later joined and thrived. Read my recruitment story, I wondered if the girls were too laid back.
What is not ok, in my book, is to say the girls are too fat/not pretty/not hot enough to compare to the fabulous me. That, on so many levels, is something to be ashamed of saying. You grew (as real friendships) as a person.
I'd love to know where you joined. Be proud. You're happy. Congratulations!
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