I loved Candlelights! We'd do the same thing, try to guess who. When I had mine for getting engaged, I only told my Little, and she made me a candle (I still have it). She had it arranged at the house one night after a meeting. When it came to me, I actually passed it to her, she then acted like she was going to pass it on, and then she turned around and passed it back to me, then I blew it out. I surprised everyone.