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Our chapter was similar to those above. You told one person, and that person made your candle (although ours were not made to represent the person- they were more sorority specific- lavender and maroon, pearls, etc). Usually the candle would just "show up," usually a few days before meeting, to really get everyone's curiosity up! The sister who made it would sneak it on a table in the foyer, or at the mailboxes, or, if day of, conceal it in a bag to sneak to the president before meeting. You tried to avoid letting anyone know who made the candle, as usually that would be an indication of who's candlelight it was.