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These things are different for every sorority, but I know we just had a plain candle with a ribbon around it. Making a candle puts me in mind of those giant things in churches that you pay for.
This is also different, but for our chapter, usually someone very close to the person, or sometimes the person herself, tells the chaplain (or whatever you call your ritual person). Like any other chaplain, she's expected to keep her mouth shut until the ceremony. Ditto if the person you tell is the president.
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Last edited by 33girl; 02-24-2011 at 05:39 PM.
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