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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Are there really chapters where recs would HURT your chances? My chapter didn't get many recs, but when we did, it was like "oh, cool, maybe we can try to pair her up with someone else who played tennis in high school".
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I seem to remember some posters giving accounts of collegians (at unspecified schools) having the attitude of "I can choose my own sisters thankyouverymuch" when seeing recs, but it is really just a matter of education, of seeing recs as a "head start" on getting to know a PNM and who she should talk to. Hopefully the chapter's recruitment advisor will see the recs, and should be able to set the record straight.