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Originally Posted by BadCat25
I am going to give you some more tough love. Why would you want to join a chapter where you had to conform to their image of a brother rather than being the person that you are? When I went through sorority rush I wanted to join this one chapter so bad because I wanted to be just like them. When they cut me I was devastated and almost dropped out of rush but stuck it out and joined my sorority where I am probably a better fit. So as I said before, please let it go and move on. To continue to torture yourself about this does you zero good.
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Thank you. I agree with what you said and you just reaffirmed what my parents said.
I did end up talking to one of the other brothers that I knew. Take it for face value : Apparently the ones that did like me and overall wanted me there, did stand up for me, and if it weren't for the one person leaving because of GPA, I could have had the scale tipped for me. Overall, there were not enough people to support me.
I do like these guys but I now understand that we can be friends, but we're not going to be brothers. They'll still invite me to parties and other functions, but I won't pledge under them to join their fraternity.
Thanks for all of the advice people! I truly appreciate it.