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Perhaps the problem was that you spent most of the time asking them about what they liked about the fraternity, their pledge process, etc. While those are good questions to ask, it really shines no light on how you get along with them. The rushees we loved always bonded with us talking about something that interested the brothers...sports, politics, music, business, girls, movies, whatever.
At the end of the day, instead of trying to find excuses, it could just be because you didn't get along with the brothers and didn't have a lot in common with them. If all you did was talk about their process, you really have no legitimate gauge on if you have anything in common with them.
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