After dating both Greek and non-Greek men, I've found that it has been much easier and fun for me to date a Greek than a non-Greek. The non-Greek I went out with a few times was older than me--graduated from college, had a good job--and had went to a commuter school where Greek life wasn't a big deal. He though all the typical sorority girl stereotypes were true, which I couldn't be farther from. That pissed me off because he automatically assumed I was stupid, superficial, and easy, which ruined our so-called relationship from the beginning.
My boyfriend of a year and a half is a Pi Kapp and we have a GREAT relationship. He was archon when I was VP of New Member Ed., and was in his last semester when I took over President, so we understood each other's time commitments and events we had to attend. My sorority always hangs out with his fraternity, which always makes things much more fun because we're at the same parties and get togethers with the same friends. We are best friends with 3 other couples from our fraternity/sorority and go out together all the time for dinner and stuff like that. We are both going to be in a wedding next summer for one of those couples, so commitment has never been a problem for us or our friends. Some frat guys and sorority girls are players, but that's their own immaturity. It's the person that makes you a player--not the letters.
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