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Originally Posted by Macintosh
It's not so much as the pledging and becoming a brother, it's more of the worst case scenario that would occur if I decided to drop and I had anger against them. The fear would be that I would try to get them dissolved.
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The red flag that stands out to me is that you were asking lots of questions about the bid process and pledging process. Combined with your "family member" (I assume you mean an administrator or dean of some sort) they might have thought you were just there to get info and inform on them for your parent. So yeah, I agree with the people who said you were being nosy.
But I could be completely wrong, there could have been a guy who asked 10x as many questions as you did and got a bid, and you didn't get one just because the guys thought you were a douche. We'll never know.
On another note, pledge a community service fraternity because you want to do community service. Not as a substitute for a social fraternity.