Oh, I forgot to mention that my ex lavaliered me, and that, believe it or not, was when things really changed. We'd already been together 3 1/2 years at that point, too. I guess that didn't matter to his brothers, b/c they beat him with a paddle for giving me his letters. I kid you not - from the small of his back to his knees was black and blue. Anyway, he was dumb for letting them do that to him, in my opinion (I would NEVER have let someone do that do me - I would've fought back and called nationals)! But, I guess that when he saw the treatment he'd get from his brothers for being in love, his priorities shifted from me to making his brothers happy with him - which meant being single like them. Oh, of course you were allowed to have your flings with sorority girls and freshmen, but it had better not mean anything to you! So, trust me, getting lavaliered is awesome, wearing their letters is great, but without a solid relationship, those letters don't mean much!
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