[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by MonkeyHunter213

Howdy, let me start with some backstory.

I rushed for a fraternity (we'll call it A) two years ago, Spring of '09 as a freshman. Got a bid, and actually started pledging for three weeks. Then hazing started, as in bad hazing (having to touch pledge brothers "things" etc..) and i stopped pledging. Another reason for the reluctance to pledge back then was i didn't know anything about Greek life, i rushed and peldged for the wrong reasons.

This semester i decided to check out the other fraternities during rush week. I found my gem of a Fraternity. Fraternity B is considered the more revered fraternity than the others, and usually have big pledge classes. Yesterday evening was interview night. Everything went smooth (including me meeting all the actives, etc...) but then i was asked the question i was not ready for. "Did you pledge/rush any other fraternities?"

I answered truthfully saying yes, and the reason for me dropping out of pledging. This triggered in my mind the possibility of not getting a bid. Before this i was chatting it up with the actives, even chilled with them between classes, etc...

All day i've been anxious/nervous if that will alone get me to not get a bid. I am looking forward to pledging for this fraternity if given the chance, but i feel like since there were 14 people there last night, that they wouldn't be able to extend a bid to me.

Just wondering what ya'll would think. Bid night is tommorrow, and i am so nervous/anxious on what the text will say when i get it. Anything to mention/help with the anxiousness or whatever. Hoping to get a BID

Originally Posted by MonkeyHunter213

Oh, and today i saw some of the actives around campus and maybe i was just looking to far into it, but one said good luck tommorrow, another was like yo and thats it, and it wasn't the most friendliest of greetings from anyone from a potential new member. But that could be me just reading into things WAY too much./

Also QFP juuuuuust in case.