[Jill1228]

Originally Posted by blueyes410

Hey everyone. So I thought this would be a good place to come and get some insight, because maybe some of you have gone through something like this.

I went through informal rush 2 weeks ago and ended up getting a bid, so I was really happy. I accepted the bid and have gone to a lot of social events with them so far, and everyone has been friendly/nice enough to where I felt comfortable at the events.

However, I am really starting to second-guess my decision. It's only been a week that I've been a pledge, but I feel so discouraged because everyone in my pledge class who pledged together during formal in the fall is reallyyy close with each other & it's really hard to fit into the group. Also, they are all going to be living in the house all year next year together, but I can only live in starting second semester next year.

I've even come to the point today that I considered dropping, but everyone is encouraging me to stick with it because it takes a long time. Does anyone have any comforting words or any advice? Thanks so much

QFP