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Thank you so much for the info. It's been very helpful. I live in a (much larger) city that seems like Richmond (drive out it at least 20 minutes to do something or see someone) so I'm used to it. I just needed to hear some perspectives.
I was aware Phi Mu is gone.
I'm well over 21, hate smoking, and live where it's banned in everywhere but bars and clubs.