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Originally Posted by MissNoelle
I just received a bid from a sorority and I'm really excited to join. I went to a new member meeting today and tomorrow we have mandatory council meetings, study hour, and chapter meeting where we're going to do our pledge ceremony.
I already made plans for this Sunday and I don't want to get out of them. My pledge mom texted all of us asking if we were going to be able to go - so since she ASKED, I'm assuming I'm allowed to say no? What happens if I miss a meeting?
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Are you friggin kidding me? Since she ASKED, you think you're allowed to say no? Are you that dumb?
You miss that pledge ceremony, you miss the opportunity to experience something special as a new member. I wouldn't be surprised if members will question your commitment to the sorority. I'm surprised you even think it's an option. In my chapter, you miss that pledge ceremony, you're not pledged. It's mandatory...no ifs, ands, or buts.
There are girls out there who didn't even get a bid. It's a shitty feeling to know that someone who did isn't even taking her pledgeship seriously.
