The non-Greek just has to learn that there will be committments that the Greek has to make.
This has been the major problems I have had when dating a non greek. You get questions like "why would u let people treat u that way?" " Isn't that buying your friends?" and many other lovely questions.
However, these questions have also been asked by many of my non greek friends...
all you need to realize is that this doesn't matter, nobody could understand all the wonderful things about being greek unless they acually were....lets just keep it our secret...hehe....just kidding
Trust, respect and unity - Nu Sigma Chi