I have to agree with s_leigh20 about date who makes you happy. As from my point of view I believe neophyte of any organization tends to be more wild or relationship challenged. Its like when you first come to college, for most people the first semester is party enjoy being away from home and have fun, and as you stay in the system you start to realize you can play but you also have to work. In a Fraternity or Sorority, the neophytes have there fun when they first get initiated and then instead of always having fun, they start to have to plan and organize before they can have fun. So in all fairness I believe as far as greeks go, the neophytes have more of a commitment problem then Senior members, because they are always on the run partying and seeing what they can get themselves into. Just my $.02
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