From my experience I have found that Greek men and non-Greek men can both me mature and immature. It all depends on they way they are. I have dated both a greek and non-greek and found both to be nice guys. My boyfried now is Greek and he is wonderful!! He isn't wonderful because he is Greek, he is wonderful because of who he is!
As for the Greek dating a non-Greek thing. It can work. The non-Greek just has to learn that there will be committments that the Greek has to make. I didn't understand this compleatly until I became Greek myself.
As for the special 'perks' you get from a chapter when you get engaged or lavaliered...don't not set your sights out to date a Greek guy just for the notoriety of it. Find a guy who makes you happy
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