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Don't let it consume you. It is like waiting for a guy to call. Don't do that, either. Go live your life, go on some dates, keep busy, etc.


At this point, you have done all you can and your friends in the sorority are advocating for you. If there's another event you can attend, go and attend. I do agree that the FB group thing sounds fish, and I would not
go out of my way to contact the Membership VP any further. Whether or not it was an accident, to inform them you were not a member on their Spring page and then be denied when you later try to join up sounds shady to me, too.

That being said, I would not read anything further into it. There are a lot of different people making decisions, and the Membership VP may not have communicated to the person in charge of the FB page, etc. As your friend told you, no bids have been given. I would imagine their advisers are pressuring them to fill to chapter total and that spot in the house, so I would also imagine they can't stall forever.

Live your life. They know how to get in touch with you.