I just wanted to say that I have dated a greek guy for over two years now and I think that it has been easy on our relationship. We had things in common to talk about with both of us being in a greek organization. It was also nice when we needed to talk about things going on in our houses. We both have experienced it so it is nice to have someone to listen who understands the stress of being in a greek org. sometimes.
On another note. When I started college i was dating someone else who ended up pledging a fraternity. He definitely changed because of his house into someone I did not like at all. When I met my bf now he was already in a fraternity. He is very proud of his fraternity but it never made him anything bur very nice to me. His brothers are all the same way toward girls too. The ex bf on the other hand pledged a house that is very disrespectful of girls and looks at each girl that walks in the front door as a piece of meat. I am so glad I realized all of this early so that I could find a real man in my bf now. I love him and all of his fraternity brothers.
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