I have been through many greek relationships.. and they all confuse the living crap out of me!!!!!!!!!!!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh
ok now that i let that out.. let me explain.. greek men in my opnion are afraid of commitment!
they cant stand being tied down to one greek girl, when there are all those other "groupies" from other organiztions..
my first greek boyfreind was when i was rushing.. i didnt fully understand why he was taking so much time to do this or that..and eventually i broke up with him because he didnt have enough time for me.. well we decided to be freinds.. but when i was finally a pledge he IGNORED MY EXISTENCE! he told all my sisters that he didnt know who i was.. and why some "pycho pledge" was in love with him.. the jerk.. ok well then i went to my first mixer (Pi Kappa Phi)
and i met my current "dating person" (hes not my boyfreind but close enough dont know what to call him!) anwyays he is the sweetest and best guy ive ever met.. he truly is a "southern gentleman" we have talked and dated for 6months.. and at first i thought he was annoying cause he called so much.. but eventually we got to getting to know each other.. and now im completely anamored!
he is great.. he helped me learn my creed, knows all my chants and songs.. makes me feel special all the time.. he says im the most importnat girl in his life.. even though he is dating other girls.....
my problem is i dont deal with sharing very well.. and i want him to commit.. but he wont yet
i know that when he does it will be wonderful.. but i know he just doesnt want to commit because he is a young "frat guy" ahhhh it sucks.. he tells me everything though.. and even feels guilty when he hangs out with other girls..
i just dont know what to do.. i really want to be his.. and only his.. and him to be only mine! but this whole greek thing i think is making it take a lil longer than hoped for!
why do greek guys not want commitment???? that is like a bad word to them..
i dont get it.. they all confuse the living crap out of me!
sorry this is so long.. i needed to vent
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