[Kevin]

Could it be that a young lady of 18 or 19 had a slightly immature reaction to rejection? We can't all be perfect ladies and gents at that young age. Imagine what you would have felt like and what you might have said if you hadn't been picked up going through rush.

Perhaps she always knew deep down that she wanted to experience being in a sorority? If she has joined a new colony I think she's shown more initiative and love of greek life than someone that rushed and got picked up and from there was told basically what they should do from that point on.

Think very carefully about this individual and maybe forgive someone for saying a few stupid things?

LHT
Kevin