I think I have a bit of an odd experience. I dated a guy who dropped his fraternity the day before initiation. I didn't start dating him until two years after the fact, but the odd part was that the brother who made a comment that fixed his decision to drop is dating my big sister. It was awkward at first, but they both got over it. The only real fights we had about me being Greek was that I was so busy with rush practice this fall that I didn't see him for three days, and we both lived on campus!
My experience with dating Greek guys hasn't been that positive, but that's just about guys in general I knew freshman year who pledged and seem to have gone downhill since then. But then there's Greek guys who are great. I think it depends on the person, not if they're Greek or not.
Jen
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