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Originally Posted by BemoreLXA
If a woman says she will be in "ABC sorority or nothing", I can understand that. That is a feeling that can transcend gender. So if a PNM drops out of recruitment when she is cut by ABC or XYZ, I don't feel ill will towards her. I understand.
You don't think there are women who would rather be independent than be affiliated with their second or third choice? Thats the point I'm trying to drive at. If the OP feels this way, more power to her
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Of course that happens, but NPC sorority women try not to encourage/enable/glorify the "ABC or nothing" mentality among PNMs. Every chapter has members who find value in their chapter, regardless of "tier", otherwise, there would be no "bottom tier" chapters. Most women find that they would fit in at many, not necessarily all, chapters at their school, instead of just one...when they keep an open mind. And then there's the self-awareness aspect. PLENTY of people think they're "top tier" material...but they're not.