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Originally Posted by Shellfish
Is it considered bad form to follow up the non-RSVPs with a phone call? Because I would do that first, saying that you hadn't heard from them and need to know for planning purposes. I would hope the message would get through.
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While it's a bit embarrassing (and a pain in the patoot), it's also the one time you can purposefully tell someone that they're rude without saying it.
Give yourself a break, if you can, and buy the crudites & fruit platters. You don't want to play Soup Nazi and say, "No eggs or muffins for
you!" The non-responders are the ones being rude - don't stoop to their level.