Hey sister! Our chapter has a points system in place for attendance. Weekly meetings are required and can only be excused for things like class, severe illness, unavoidable work conflicts, family emergencies, ect. It's very rare for a person to get excused for any other reason than this. If they do not attend and are not excused, it counts against them. If a sister falls below 80% attendance of required events (meetings, sisterhood circles, recruitment events, ect), she is automatically placed in poor standing. This is a pretty good incentive for sisters to attend meetings. It's a good system because there is a margin for sisters if they have something come up and aren't able to get excused, or if they're spending a weekend at home, ect. I hope things get better, KT!