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Attend some rush events. You'll start to get a feel, and if you don't feel (at some point, not 5 minutes after you walk in the door) comfortable enough sharing your concerns, they're probably not the place to be. But if you say you don't drink, you'll probably get some version of "that's cool" and then either get invited back, or not. There are a lot of reasons why people don't drink, so I think you can just mention it without having to share every religious or social opinion you ever had. If they look at you cross-eyed, you can always lie and say you have diabetes, and then know you're not going back there again. (living with a lie is NOT what I'm suggesting - just something to throw under the bus to get out of an awkward moment)
Also, do your research. There may be a fraternity that is as focused on Christianity as you want it to be.
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