I'm am currently the President of my organization and I am dating the presdient of a fraternity. We were both Greek when we began dating, however not in the offices we currently hold. I have found that he is much more understanding than past guys I have dated in regards to my having to cancel plans etc due to a "crisis" in the chapter.
He is also much more grown-up and resposible than other guys I have dated (nongreeks). He has had to take responsibilites and he takes these seriously.
However the greek community is very similar to a small town. The gossip mill works overtime. Everyone will know the smallest details of your relationship. Everyone will also feel it is their right to know the inner workings of your relationship and if you are haiving relationship problems the entire greek system seems to know about it.
I think in the end it just depends on the person.
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