I will say that it really doesn't matter either way. I agree with Crimson Tail...once an a**hole, always one.
I will say that there is an "understanding" among members of Greek organizations. If I have meetings, it is understood and vice versa. My boyfriend is in a BGLO, he also attended Morehouse College. In the South and East Coast EVERYBODY is in BGLOs. Point Blank.. He lives in Cali now and can't believe he meets people who never pledged and don't seem to be interested. At his high school, they had the fraternity like groups and sororities which "prepared" them for what it "may" be like in college when they pledge. It is sucha a part of life, to be with someone who is not "Greek" is like a mystery. That was one of the first questions he asked me when I met him. I don't think that had anything to do with his decision to date me (a wise one I might add
) but it is definitely a topic of discussion for him. Just as "Did you go to college" is for him. He doesn't understand how a college educated woman could date a man who has never been to college. I get on his a** all the time about it, but he is dead serious. There is like a lack of frame of reference if that is not ONE of the connections two people have with one another. Part of me agrees in a sense. I mean his frat brothers ask. "What Sorority are you in." When I sat DST, it's like "Okay, she's all good." Although I am not in his "sister" organization, it's like okay, there is still a "common" bond between us.
Okay, I'm done...I tend to ramble...sorry
That's my $1913.00 worth, not just $19.13.