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Here's another swerve and another analogy that may help.
On the first day of (middle or high) school, you're usually put into new classes with new people. Some people may know each other from previous classes and will seem to get along right off the bat. If you don't know anyone in your class, it'll seem like you're an outsider.
Fast forward a few weeks. You've gotten to know more of the people in your class and are more comfortable interacting with everyone. You may even make some new friends after a while.
You're not going to be best friends with everybody immediately at ANY time in your life, including your new member period. Take the time to get to know people and you should be fine.
Also, as others have said, it's a 2 way street. You're not automatically BFFs with everyone by virtue of sharing letters. You need to reach out to people in order to make your experience worthwhile.
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*does side bends and sit-ups*
*doesn't lose butt*
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