I roomed with a girl this past year who has no reservations about throwing away all of her greek stuff after she graduates. To me, this is a huge insult, she has no plans of contributing to her house with time or money as an alum and even now she never bothers to attend functions and bearly goes to chapter meetings. To me it is clear, if these are your feelings towards your house, deactivate. People like this only bring us down as a chapter. My house is my joy. I am greek for life. And I HIGHLY agree with DeltaSigStan, You are not rude and you know exactly what you're talking about.
Love to all!
