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I understand exactly where you're coming from - I'm not nearly as outgoing as a lot of my pledge class. There were a lot of times last semester I felt a little lost & overwhelmed and wondered why everyone else seemed so much closer with one another. I also sympathize with feeling like you don't fit in with your pledge class/chapter, because I am the complete opposite of my chapter's stereotype and most people think I'm in a different sorority before I tell them. But things do and will get better as long as you stay committed to making it that way and keep reminding yourself: there is a reason they picked you. There is a reason you picked them. As a new semester begins I already feel so much more comfortable and able to be myself around my sisters and have been growing closer to members of my own pledge class. I promise, just because some other girls may already be forming fast friendships and making plans together doesn't mean that a). they wouldn't love to be your friend as well or b). everyone in you chapter is that outgoing.
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