Absolutely 100% most definitely normal. I think I had this misconception that joining a chapter would mean I would have instant best friends over night and that's just not at all how it works. It's the same as anywhere else, it will take time to get to know them. The biggest difference is that while other people, the ones you meet in the dorms, on intramural teams, etc. might come and go, you'll always have the sorority as a common bond. Stick with it and remember that you are NOT the only person who feels this way. It will be so very worth it in the end.
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GAMMA PHI BETA
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