hmmm... greek or non-greek... thats a hard question to answer. i have been with my current (greek) boyfriend for 3 years. he is no longer in school, i am. i feel more comfortable with greek guys just because they are the ones i know best. i have also found that non-greeks can have a bad perception of greek life and are uncomfortable with the time commitment. on the other hand, dating a greek guy can be like dating their entire fraternity because they all seem to know EVERYTHING about the relationship!! just don't date a pledge because they will spend more time worrying about what the brothers think, then what you think!! good luck!