Hello all, my boyfriend of a year and a half is greek. I must say that this has been one of the longest most fulfilling relationships I have ever been in. Note, that he was already greek when I met him. It was hard at first, I found it hard to trust him. But, as time went on I began to trust him. Dont get me wrong, I dont put anything past anybody, but I trust that when he goes to frat parties,etc he will remember that I am watiing for him when he gets home. I am now seeking membership in a greek organization and he is being very supportive of me. I dont think that a non-greek man would understand allof the time and effort it takes to do this. So I am thankful for that. I really cant compare him to a non-greek becuase who is to say that his membership in this organization has an effect on his behavior? I may meet a mature, dedicated greek today and an immature, cheating greek tomorrow. I would never generalize all members of an organization like that. I must say this, I was greatly surprised about how respectful the members are to me. The organization has a bad reputationf or being womanizers. As a freshman I was warned about these guys. But I have learned that, if you carry yourself like a woman of dignity and respect, they will treat you no other way.
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