i dated a gdi(immediately) after i crossed and she just didn't understand the sheer amount of responsibility i had. there just weren't enough hours in the day to study, prepare for a stepshow, and work on our various community service projects while trying to cater to her needs. i don't need to say what i chose, but incidentally, i'm now dating a woman from a mainstream sorority(Alpha Phi) and she's just as busy as i am. so far so good. i guess women in glo's tend to have a better understanding of your responsibilities, cuz they have so many of their own.( this is not a slant against the independent women who work their tails off during school, it's just that greek women are more likely to understand and appreciate the bond us greek men have with our brothers, while gdi's are more likely to write us off as followers or slaves as my ex did. just my opinion, no harm intended)