Well I am a member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority Inc. at Cheyney University and I feel most men are the same whether Greek/Non-Greek. A lot of people down the brothers in Fraternities on this subject all the time. Yes it's true. We have those who get their letters(just like females)and lose their mind. The girls who never gave them a second thought now all of a sudden feel the need to boost up their heads. And then they bring that to women such as myself who won't deal with the crap they feel they have the right to dish out. Some of these brothers let the "groupies" cloud their judgement and fall for that all the time. Then you have the stereo types some bruhs in the frats feel they must emulate. For example, my bruhs the Kappa's who are known for that nasty nupe style of loving and getting all the women or the Omegas known for being the nasty dawgs also getting all the women or the Sexy Sigma's who perform in step shows licking whipped cream off chairs which definitely appeals to the women or the Alpha's who are cute and women gotta have them 06 brothers. In some cases they were like that before the frat in other cases they weren't. But, I tell you what I've been in relationships with GDI's and Greeks. IT DOESN'T MATTER! A man is going to be a man whether he has letters on or not just like a female. It's true you do get more attention when you join an organization. I was getting it before so I don't trip. Everybody isn't like that. But trust 9 times out of 10 if you pay that man no mind and let his groupies surround him he'll come around eventually. You just might change that Greek man. you know men love a challenge whether they are GREEK/NON-GREEK!