My name is feminine (though in this one org I'm in they called this guy by his last name (my first name). They said they can't call him that anymore (since its my first name), they were of course joking. My dad wanted to call me by my middle name which is used for girls and guys. I would not be turned off from dating a guy with my middle name. In an org that I used to work for there was a cute guy who had my middle name as his first. I wouldn't have minded dating him. However, that guy is a player so that unfortunately won't be happening
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