Interesting topic indeed... I used to date a Sigma (we both started out non-greek) and there was an understanding because of similar commitments. The gentleman I now date is not greek and frankly it doesn't matter. What he does know about my involvement with Zeta Phi Beta, he respects, and supports. PLUS he's intelligent which matters much more than being greek. I'm happy!
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Sweet Deliverance's PHI-losophy:
"What you do or do not do today determines what you can or cannot do tomorrow."