Oh an also,
About the "---" phrase, I was simply pointing it out because I was saying that Jewish girls themselves here(for the most part, or course not all) are the ones who call themselves "---" Never ever did I say anyone was or is, I was just stating how people call it themselves, and was also imitating actual events that have occured in my life, with my friends. Sorry if anyone's feeling got hurt. I personally also find it disturbing that people like to call themselves that and was just pointing that out. Thanks to all who pointed out what I was saying
Love and sisterhood.