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Originally Posted by ggforever
A woman with a child that is in college full time will not (or at least should not) have time for sorority activities. When she is not in class or studying, she needs to be a MOTHER!!! Life is full of important choices and she made a life altering one when she decided to become pregnant. If I were an adviser to a chapter considering pledging a young mother I would strongly advise against it.
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So if she would have had an abortion instead, you'd hand her a bid with a big bow on it?
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Originally Posted by Regina.George
We're just going to have to agree to disagree on this. I (and many other people) believe abandoning a child for several critical years in its development is neglect at best.
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Grandparents raising a child does not = abandonment. If we're going to use that word, there are a LOT of very well-off people who have "abandoned" their children by putting them in the practically full-time care of nannies.
I think it's great that they're encouraging their daughter to complete her college education and have a good college experience. If all she has in her life is studying and baby care, she's not going to be a very happy person and she'll probably end up dropping out and going into a dead end job.