I've dated both gdi and greek. I prefer greek. As mentioned earlier, the level of understanding regarding time commitment, etc.. is there. When he has a meeting, I understand, when I have to prep for rush, he understands. Also, when I got engaged to my frat guy
, not only did I get a candle passing from my sisters, but I was serenaded by my guy and his boys. (I think it's an added bonus)
The gdi guys I dated didn't like the greek thing. Also, when I met these guys, I didn't tell them I was in a sorority at first. I found out later with one guy that had he known that I was greek, he would not have dated me. Whatever. One greek guy I dated wanted to know some house secrets. He wanted to 'compare notes' as he put it. Yeah right!
I did date a guy that was on line before I became greek. He was nice before and after he crossed. It was annoying when we went to parties and he had his little fan club around.
once I became greek though, i understood where this was comming from. (I had my own little fan club)
[This message has been edited by theXgirl (edited June 14, 2000).]
[This message has been edited by theXgirl (edited June 14, 2000).]