The chapter where I advise doesn't invite women to "COB" events but rather fun" events such as watching Gray's Anatomy, basketball game the chapter is attending, etc. In other words, to "hang out" with the women. All the events are structured as sisterhood events and not just COB ones. We also do less formally scheduled things like getting a few women to go get pizza, whatever...and the PNM is just invited to go along. This allows them to meet our women in a less threatening environment without any hard sell going on. Informal COB is a soft sell.
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