<<At college parties where many prospects are,my sisters and I have never told anyone to do anything, but we carefully observe how people carry on at affairs. Why? For instance, one girl who had expressed interest was seen dancing on top of a guy laying on the floor. Every one was agast and the guys called her some not so nice names. After we saw how she carried on for the rest of the night with every guy that approached her for a "dirty dance" we knew she would not be representative of the ideals of our sorority.>>
I think this is something all sororities and fraternities should exercise. The prospective members' social activities should be monitored, because the moment the general population learns that a girl who would disrespect herself on the dance floor with a man has become a member of XYZ Sorority, the sorority's reputation is somewhat trashed. This happened, to some extent, with a girl in my pledge class...not only was she late to pledge activities, she abandoned us during a pledge activity to hang out with wrestlers, and she told a lot of people how "corny" some of our traditions were. Well, before she could be kicked out, she depledged...much to our happiness. Now, if the older sisters had monitored her behavior (I knew of her party and study habits) before they accepted her, none of this would have happened.
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