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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
As you describe the process, I can see why you felt pressured to join too quickly. Am I to understand that you were offered 2 bids after a general informational session? That would freak me out too.
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She rushed in the spring, so I'm guessing it's assumed that the people doing informal rush have met some of the women in sororities at some point. It's no different than being invited to an open bid party and being offered a bid afterwards.
If she didn't say "I want to get to know the sisters better before I decide" or go to any of the other parties that was her mistake. I also wonder if she's confusing bids with invitations to invite-only events.
soca15, if you're worried about chilly legs, I would go with the purple dress, tights and shoes. The polka dot ones are too summery - even if you're in a warm climate it is still January.