Let's see.... I am a non greek and I had a guy that I was interested in and who was interested in me...well I met this guy while he was on line for a fraternity that will remain unnamed. While he was on line he used to call me and when we would talk, he would always swear up and down that he would not change when he crossed! While he was online he seemed to be so sweet...and I really believed that he wouldn't change after he got his letters...boy was I wrong! It seemed like overnight when this boy finally crossed he became Mr. Party all the time...his conversations changed from "how are you today" to "how can i get in them panties?" He was a groupie magnet and loved it, needless to say I got tired and bored with his fake ass and I stopped dealing with him....so that's one of my experiences...fortunately it didn't turn me off to greek men because later on down the line I met another greek and he is the sweetest, most considerate, sensitive, and loving person I have ever met and we are engaged to be married. So I guess there are two sides to every coin...greek or not..men are men and they can be good or bad.