Ok, ladies I had to chime in because what kills me is our socieity that puts TONS of pressure on women to conform to what the mainstream THINKS is beautiful (slim, blonde, etc. ).....but yet, for some reason it is ok for men to go around looking like "who did it and why"......

(big gut, out of shape,etc.)
WHAT'S GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER!!