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Old 01-02-2011, 04:11 PM
Drolefille Drolefille is offline
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Originally Posted by Alumiyum View Post

Of course "I really like it here"/"I feel at home here"/"I really like your chapter" are nice and much more general things to say that show genuine interest without making actives think that is the only option Polly is considering.
Of course, I was only pointing out that there was no 'bottom line' at all. It's a pure judgment call. One person's "totally safe" is another person's "not really interested." Just like one person's "showing sincere interest" is another person's "OMG FREAK."

There's not a universal consensus on the topic.
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